The Secret Society of the Stylish

I have a secret to tell you. It is the secret to having killer style. It’s like an ACTUAL secret of the “secret society of the stylish” passed down to me by an elder member of the club. And now that I am privy to this classified information, I too am a member of the club. And obviously the whole idea of a secret society is that like, it’s members aren’t really supposed to reveal the super exclusive secrets of the club…or else everyone will have it all figured out and they won’t be so special or powerful anymore. But I will tell you anyway. It’s CON-FI-DENCE. In other words: sell it, sister. I knooooow…kinda cliché. But seriously I am telling you confidence is KEY, people. Confidence is all about trusting your gut; not worrying about whether or not you nicely fit into some arbitrary archetype that the media tells you best represents your particular psychographic. Just do YOU. Do you as if your damn life depended on it and then…you will be the baddest bitch on the block. Now of course, all this confidence talk leaves you with one burning thought, “Easier said than done, gurl.” I know, I know. I also read this quote the other day that, regardless of how confident one may be, can be really comforting to hear: "The greater the artist, the greater the doubt. Perfect confidence is granted to the less talented as a consolation prize.” SO if you ever find your confidence is wavering...just remember that it's obviously because you are a brilliant artist. BOOM BABY

Thrifted sweater. Zara shorts. Thrifted pumps. PS- I dyed my hurr!

Until next time,



  1. Agree with you! I've ever heard "With a little confidence and by finding the right fit, you can pull off almost anything" :)

    I Love your blog <3
    and by the way, I'm following you now, wanna do the same? :)
    Pinky Promise

  2. I am loving your outfit especially those heels and those shorts!


  3. well if hair that good doesn't give you a confidence boost i don't know what will. you look amazing and you are working those sequin shorts!


  4. Ok a. I lurve the hair b. I love those shorts/sweater/heels and c. Totally agree......confidence is the key to style.....and being a bad-ass bia like yourself :)
    Brooke @ what2wear

  5. Confidence is key!! Love it. Thank you for you comment! Following you now, I hope you'll follow back <3

  6. yes, yes, YES- confidence makes or break the outfit, you, your work... everything! Loved reading this and that quote was great.


  7. What a good sense of style.

  8. I 100% agree with you!! Basically, you gotta work it. Anyways, love the sweater!

    Mili from call me, Maeby

  9. DAMN GURL. I would have a shit load of confidence if I had your legs. And your new hair is superb. I'm getting a new pair of shoes for my bday. I just might have to get red ones. There is no other answer except red shoes with this look.
    Really and truly one of my favorite looks you've done. The textures are perf.


  10. Hi!
    Great blog and nice outfit !
    Would you like to follow each other? Please let me know, I will follow you back!

  11. You look awesome as ever, totally werking it!

    Maria xxx

  12. really need that sweater now! superb styling!


  13. these pictures are gorgeous! those shorts are fab

    hope you'll visit back

  14. that quote is literally too good

    i realize it's self-satisfying and probably a little indulgent, but I can't help how great it makes me feel

    can't believe you thrifted these pumps. so damn modern

  15. Gorgeous! Yes, confidence is essential! Happy weekend! :) /Madison

  16. Wonderful post, gorgeous outfit! :)